Thursday, September 30, 2010

Changing, Being You, Self-betterment

"Change': To pass from one phase to another.

When growing up, I believe that we must all move from one point in life to another. This process or phase is typically what I like to call the growing up phase. Simply removing bad habits, and things that isn't beneficial to you. When immature we tend to do things just because, and really have no real logical explanation on why. Its funny when you embrace "change" many people look at you differently and actually say that you have changed, andview it as being so negative. In life we has to "Change", we can't do the things we used to do, especially when yo have places you need to go. "Change" is just you involving into the "betterment" of thyself, and "Being Simply You''. Your moving on "from one phase to another". And its nothing wrong with moving forward and setting new goals. Most time, you don't "change" your core goals, and or you core intentions. You "change" your lifestyle, way of thinking, and/or way you go about doing things. Your passion for winning, and your passion that made you strive, never will be altered. It takes really strong people to realize that you can't go 10 steps forward while standing still. I've have faced some challenges in these areas, but do extremely realize that I have to keep striving, and keep settle goals to become who I need to be. Throughout this month, I've realized that trying to grow is always tested by other people opinions rather than your own. Why should anyone matter, and determine who you are, need to be, and/or should do. Stop focusing on people saying you changed as if its a negative thing. "Life is handed out in phases, and we must pass from one phase to the next for self-betterment." This is also known as "Change", people often associate "change" in a negative manner when its the best thing you can do to better yourself. So I encourage everyone to Embrace "change", by "being you", only you for "Self-Betterment".

Michael John

Friday, September 3, 2010

Like. Love. Live.



So Today September 3rd, Marks me living for twenty two years. I can say that I am truly grateful, and is really trying hard to take it all in. Being twenty two marks a special day for me. I have now realized that I have to cut some things out, and began to embark on a journey that I have been preparing for, for so long. To get where I need to go I must go against all odds, and than overcome everything that comes my way. I know things aren't easy but you can be easily defeated if you don't try. Over and over again, I give daily quotes to people and trying to help them help themselves, by motivating them to increase self confidence. Yet, I have lacked on such things and did not practice my own guides, thoughts, and awareness. Basically, It seems that I have all the answers for others, but can't take my own advice. Which is where it is critical to always practice what you preach. So I am now going to set goals, plans, and guidelines. I am going to live my life like I know I should. I will take chances, make moves, and have no regrets! Living life to me should not be a everlasting same day. each day should bring something new to the table, and if its not its time to change things, change ways, and change our lives as we know it! Sorry for all those who will be directly affected by my future decisions, but I know now that I have to live for myself. A Life with no regrets, no rules, no other opinions, and learn how to over come how I am, without any outside influences. I am a product of my parents, and will always be that. But when you grow up, and search from independence you have to become the new generation, and become the product of thyself. Meaning you must began to create yourself as a person. In life you are not your father, nor your mother. You only answer for your actions. This is the point in your life simply when you grow up! LIKE. LOVE. LIVE.
Michael John